Thoughts on Being “Othered”.
A few days ago I was writing an email to a friend of mine about fat, fashion and marginalisation, and while I was doing so, quite a few things kind of went “Ping!” in my head, and I realised I wanted...
View ArticleOutside the Margins – Fatshion and Fashion
Hasn’t this week been a big one for the discussion of what has happened to fatshion? This discussion is a very good thing, and mostly it has actually been discussion, rather than drama. That said,...
View ArticleStares, Sneers and Snickers
If you follow me on my Fat Heffalump Facebook page, you may have seen this article I posted yesterday. Photographer Haley Morris-Cafiero has documented the reactions of people around her, a fat woman,...
View ArticlePublic Fat Shaming is not Good Marketing
Well hello! I haven’t forgotten or abandoned you all, I promise. Life has been intensely busy and I made a promise to myself at the beginning of this year that I would pace myself better and not work...
View ArticleHow to… Lose the Body Judgement
I don’t know if you have seen it yet, but Bethany over at My Arched Eyebrow has written an excellent piece on the amount of body snark, judgement and fashion/wardrobe policing that goes on in the...
View ArticleHow to Give a Compliment Without Being Douchey
Following on from my previous post – on how to lose the body judgement for your own sake as well as others, it seems I need to write another… how to give a compliment without loading it with body...
View ArticleFat and Ugly? Maybe. Fabulous? You Better Believe It!
*eyeroll* In the past 24 hours, there has been a metric shitload of trolling coming in my direction, all of it telling me that I’m fat and ugly, hideous, gross, and a bunch of other variants on the...
View ArticleSell Us the Clothes – Don’t Judge Us On Them
Ugh, when are these plus-size retailers going to get it? Check out these screen shots I took from a post Autograph Fashion made today: Now I *LOVE* Autograph. I really do. They’re one of the few...
View ArticleUnapologetically Ugly
Every day, when I open my email, there are a plethora of emails detailing how ugly I am. Every day, someone leaves a comment here on this blog, or sends me an email, or trolls my Tumblr, deeply intent...
View ArticleUnruly Bodies
Ever since I was born, my body has been unruly. It has never done what bodies are “supposed” to do. From a newborn, my body has always rebelled against the world around it. From allergies to...
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